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Last week my favorite radio station asked this question for listeners to call in with there answers. After a week or so I'll tell you how the radio station poll came out. But first let's see how you answer this question.

Your at a porn site looking through videos when to your surprise you stumble onto a video that your wife/girlfriend is starring in. Would you....

(A) Confront her about it and start an argument

(B) Say nothing but search porn sites looking for other videos she might be in

(C) Tell her you found the video and ask her to make others

(D) Say nothing about it and blow it off as her past

(E) Don't let her know you found it but you show all your buddies the video

(F) Tell her you found the video and it doesn't matter to you

Bizz I can see your point that it might make a difference....My guess is that it's a video she made before she got together with you. That seemed to be the way the question was asked

If it were made before we met, that would make it over 25 years old. I would blow it off and not mention it. If it were recent, I would definitely confront her about it. Depends on the content really, if it were with another man I'd be upset, if it were just her getting herself off, we would both end up laughing about it, and I would encourage more. But its purely hypothetical for me, I haven't been able to get her to post any pics in 9 years of trying, I doubt it would happen now.


Char, I think after a few months of dating someone, you would be able to sense if they could handle your past postings or not. I don't think it would be anything to mention on the first date LOL

Well Char I agree with starcar it's not something you want to bring up on the first date. But if you get in a relationship I think it's best to be honest and tell him about PV. Even if it's something that doesn't sit well with him...it's better that you come clean and are honest about it then having him finding out on his own. It's true that if you say nothing he might never know...but are you willing to take that chance??

So let me get this straight. You see someone you love did some nasty things on film and being upset with her about it is one of the options? It sounds like a lot of you think she should apologize for it? This coming on a forum on an amateur porn site where I assume people come to look at pictures and videos of naked people doing sexy things. Now I feel like maybe I was wrong to have posed and played here. I guess I would assume if anybody would understand it it would be the folks that spend time here watching and playing. I guess I was wrong.

Hollie, it was a question Pink heard on a talk radio station and he thought it would be fun to post it here. I don't think you thoroughly read the responses, I don't see anyone that said they would have demanded an apology. It is a simple question with little detail that could have a lot of variables on how one would respond.

Ok, sorry, maybe I mixed this one up with the other thread that was similar. Maybe I misunderstood. My apologies.

GEE!!!! It's no wonder why I don't write in the forum very often anymore....This thread was never meant to be taking personally by anyone....It's just a question asked by a radio station. I wrote in here because I wanted to see if there would be a differents between the general public's answers to the radio's poll and all the pervs here answering in the forum.

One other thing I should make clear...The radio station poll was about a professional porn video....not a home porn at a site like this. I think that makes a bit of a differents

my answer isn't listed in the choices:

i would feel betrayed & lied to. then wonder wot else she's lying about?
our relationship is now on an insecure foundation...not good...trust lost.

i would compare this to cheating...it's not the deed, it's the betrayal.