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Sorry I misunderstood slowly. There are a lot of people I chat with that don't have pics of themselves on their profile. I base everything on my chats with people, not what I see on their profile page.

I see, as txsweet said, that you are leaving. You will be missed. I enjoyed our chats. Take care!!!

Pink, I think it is way toooooooooo easy for people to hide behind their keyboards. Afterall, unless they post a pic that someone has seen on the internet elsewhere, how does anyone viewing the profile know that it is a fake, or that is has been photoshopped.

I think it is hysterical how some of the guys on here have no problem thinking that ALL the pics of the young girls on here are "amateur" shots & untouched. Look closely guys. Hell some of these pics are the same post, just recycled in a different order. The one post wonders! I have even seen the same set of pics posted on 2 different profiles. And yet these same people doubt some of the "real amateurs" on here. Even though they have multilple posts, in all different environments.

I recently uploaded several review posts of all the pics I have posted over the past year & a half. This is a prime example of how observant some guys are. Those people that I chat with regularly know that I have lost a significant amount of weight since I first came here. If you check out my posts regularly, you will have seen the progression. And THANK YOU to those that did notice & leave me encouraging feedback.

As I stated, I posted review sets. A mix of old & new in the same posts. My profile pic was taken AFTER I lost the weight & I posted a full set of pics along with that one at the time. I have gained some back, which in my opinion, is evident in the newer posts. But I have since had people comment or email me asking me WHO the girl is in the profile pic. ALL my pics are me & the only photoshopping done was the addition of the "spotlight" effect on the one instant post. Some of those same pics were posted in a black & white set, same pics, no spotlight.

Sooooooooo if people are going to scrutinize the pics of those of us who post.....how about opening your damn EYES before opening your damn MOUTHS!!!! Personally, I could care less what people think, but not everyone on here has thick skin & WORDS DO HURT!!!!! It also chases people away!!!

And you're right pink, society does put an unrealistic spin on what is considered beautiful. If you look at playboy, all of us should be blonde with fake tits & you should be able to count our ribs lol. On the other hand, if you look at the commercialization of men, you all should be over 6ft with chisled abs & muscles. But MOST of us know that isn't what the majority of the "real" people look like. And as I have said before, the world would be a VERY boring place if we ALL looked the same.

Soooooo, how about appreciating those who do post both male & female, instead of leaving rude/nasty comments because there is something about them that doesn't fit into your "idea" of what beauty is. Remember, NO ONE has to post. This site would be VERY boring without the "real" men & women who allow you to view them in their most intimate moments.

ok got cut off, so to continue........

And I would like to thank the handful of guys that I sent my pics to when I first came here. Their encouragement is the reason I started posting. While I may be very outspoken, I will admit that I found the site very intimidating when I first came here. The thought of posting NEVER even entered my mind, let alone camming. But I have those guys to thank for making my time here fun as the weeks progressed. And those who know me, know I LUV MY FUN!!!!

Your absolutely right Browneyes it is way too easy to hide behind your keyboard. But then again that's why we have so many blank profile and profiles with fake profile pictures and fake contributions. OK OK while we are on the subject I will admit that my profile pic really isn't me...You have to look at my contributions to see the real me.

I'm sure there is a long list of reasons why people can't be seen at a site like this including there job or someone from there church might spot them here and etc. As we all know being anonymous for some people gives them a license to be a jerk. But that's only a hand full of people here. I think for many they just don't have the balls to put themselves out there. Even if it's been said time and time again that this is an amateur site and you don't have to look like a barbie doll or body builder you still have to have guts to post your naked ass for the world to see. I think most people just don't have what it takes and that's why they hide behide fake pics and blank profiles.