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OK This one is for the guys. Let's say you meet a very attractive girl with a terrific personality. You really hit it off and start dating. After six months she moves in and everything is still going great. A year goes by and your relationship is still fantastic but that's when she decides to let you in on something about her she didn't want you to know before now.

She tells you that she has had sex with well over 100 different men and has been involved in gang bangs,orgies,and just about every other sexual act you can think of.

Would this turn you on and heat up your sex life?? Would it change the way you look at her and cause problems ?? Or would it make no differance to you???

Let's be honest with our answers......


I'll start by saying....I would like to say it would make no differance....but I don't think that's true. I wouldn't want to throw away a great relationship over someone's past but I can't honestly say I'd be happy to know she was a sperm bank either....This is a tough one to answer.

It wouldn't bother me until we were making love. Seriously, you'd be thinking how do you stack up against over 100+ other men. That is a tough one to answer. Think my first thought would be, I'd better get her and myself tested for a STD.

First I think it would put me in shock. It would definitely require some testing to continue on. But honestly I think it would always be right there in my head is she happy with me. Is she sneaking around to get satisfied or do I take care of her needs. Trust and honesty are the best way to build a relationship.