Yeah things in the chat room do seem to be quitter than usual I think it's the time of year, it will pick up once everyone has finished eating shopping ect
Den thr couple of time's iv'e seen you in chat i always said hi and stuff ,,, I will have chats with everyone any anyone in the main room , Hell i even chat to shydave lol .
All it take's is a little courtesy by the regulars that know how hard it can be when you are new.
When i started chatting back in the chat room under this nic after a few yrs break it took me and har0ld a while to get into it properly even though i knew a few people that had come from the same room i had and i'm an easy going kinda gall .
Now on the other hand i'd hate for the room to go *tit's up* as we say here in the UK , I have made many friends that i would sadly miss .
Anyway another rant over c'mon ppl help keep it fun .
Love's ya'll xx
Life's a Bitch !!
LynS x
Lady Lyn has some great comments.... I personally miss the former politeness.... seems to be so much more crass lately ... just me
frodo ....... I do try and be nice ,,,,, well maybe to the new chatters i'm nicer .... don't want to scare them lol
I have tried to be a Nice Lady but it scares the crap outa me lolol
Life's a Bitch !!
LynS x
Lady Lyn, you are always a Lady .... even when slappin'!
den so glad you enjoy all the bollix i type lol ...xxx
frodo you callin me a slapper ?? lmao xxxx
Life's a Bitch !!
LynS X
I dont think theres any problem with the people who inhabit the room, the majority are decent people and the room is reasonably friendly....... yes it does seem a little cliquey to a newcomer, but thats the same for any chatroom.... regulars know each other , newcomers dont , so it is bound to feel slightly intimidating.
Golly I'm a regular and even I feel im an outsider very occasionally, lol.
My perception is that the main problem is lack of women and couples who are prepared to go on cam or to chat in the room. More females on cam drags in more people...
At the risk of reverting back to the old argument of changed software, if one looks back over the years, the numbers started to decline after the last room change, which coincided with the loss of privacy re camming . The majority of ladies I have talked to since the change have all said that they feel uncomfortable with everyone knowing they are on cam, even if it is locked and so they simply dont cam anymore.
I know admin have cited legal reasons for the need to change,
but the way its is going I can see the ratio of paying members to non paying members reducing, simply beacuse there is no reason to pay a fee to see, basically, a very few men camming.
I dont know the answer, but the room changes would seem to have been put together by a committee of men rather than taking the female viewpoint into consideration.
Surely the collective brains of PV can come up with some valid suggestions as to how to revitalise the chat room !
I had no problems logging in using my Mac but since two years ago the chat stopped working for me and I cannot log in anymore. I tried to contact PV to not avail.
I tried to log in right this moment and I was able to....sigh....I tried so many times in the past without success (last time was like two months ago)...It sucks to have lost two years of action there....and now that it is mentioned that the chat room is dying it is ironic I can log in now...
starcatcher xxoo :)