Ladies, what lingerie makes you feel the sexiest?   Reply to topic

I always laugh and smile at your replies star.. bless you

now if I didn't have such a dam" small pelvic bone area".. id play a game of "lets find the remote" and make them earn their dam tv time...

For me I actually feel more sexy when I'm covered a little more than I am at the best sometimes. It's more about the timing and attitude that goes with it. If I'm wearing some heels and have on bright lipstick with any lingerie it's just a guarantee that hubby will have some of it coming off sooner! lol



Txsweet,

I can really sympathize with you situation of wants and needs vs morals that you hold dear to you. It is a tough situation and only you can make that decision. But keep in mind that they lack of desire may be only a physical thing for your partner and beyond his control. There can still be intimate feelings without the physical attractions that lead to intimate physical acts.


I hope I don't get judged for this but years back when my hubby was thousands of miles away we were talking one night and both admitted that many of the opposite sex were starting to look really good to us. We both also admitted that testing other waters had crossed our minds, but morals stopped either of use from going there. In the end we talked it out and came to an agreement about going outside the marriage for physical needs only for a brief period so we could keep things out in the open until we were reunited.


If your partner still has the love but lacks the lust, it's possible that explaining your physical needs might either encourage him to fulfill your needs, or allow you to have someone else do it while you maintain a clear conscience. For many men the idea of the woman being with others is exciting always, so it may help in that respect also.

Just approach the issue with your heart and be honest. Don't make it a do or die situation for him, just let him know how important the physical aspect is for you.

what a lovely reply shelly.x

Shelly....your an angel;...Thank you!

She did send that message across very well.

As did some of my other friends here.....

So Ive been thinking.........about the mailman :)

Mailmen no longer deliver large packages.

OH Robo yes Mailmen do deliver large packages. And trust me the legs in blue shorts are a hell of allot better then the brown. Fedex and UPS are always in such a hurry all they do is ring the bell and run...unless of course they need a signature. Its like a slam bam thank you mame. Also the US Postal Service DOES deliver 7 days a week compared to 5 or 6. They always make time even if they dont have time to do as what they are asked to do or even not asked to do. See...how can you beat the that? Mmmmm
I'll leave that question to your imagination :).

Love you all but the mailman......has everything including my heart :)

Lol, I stand corrected.

Robo wasnt trying to correct you babe I did what you told me to do.......i;LL Stop here :)

Well wait....I havent done it yet.......thoughts in my mind though :)