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I have tried all i can to get my partner to let me take naked pics of her. She called me a perv and refuses to even look at any adult sites. Any suggestions.

oh my... just go slow...er rrrr she sounds like she never been exposed to it. maybe brought up to think its not right, got to let her know its ok to have sexual fun. Lots want it but cant bring themselves to do anything out of (their) ordinary . Maybe take her home a sexy top and skirt and play around the house, or play strip poker with her, start adding in some nasty talk as you plow her pussy, have to loosen her up slowly though, don't go king konging her ffs. Do you eat her out? that helps lol

If she won't even look at the site, it's probably not her thing and I wouldn't push the issue. She knows you're interested so I would just wait to see if she comes around. And if she does, ensure her that you won't post her face or anything that will identify her. That means photo shopping any birth marks, tattoos, etc. But most of all, she needs to be in charge of what pictures you take and post!

Thanks everyone for your advice and i am very pleased with all the replies. I think that deep down she feels that because she is what we might say a mature lady with a fuller figure no body would want to see her naked, to be honest i cant remember the last time i saw her naked. I bought her sexy underwear and she wouldnt even try it on, saying it would look ridiculous on her. I do get off looking at ladies in sexy gear, but i thought that was normal. She thinks i am some sort of pervert. Its frustrating knowing what could be if she would let herself go a bit. Thanks all

woolbag, it sounds to me like she doesn't feel sexy, that she is embarrassed about her body. Before she would ever put it on display, even for you, she has to feel sexy about herself...(that part can be fun though!)

Yes thats true, i am always telling her she is sexy and lovely but she thinks i am just flattering her to get my way. Thanks

its hard for some women to see themselves as sexy as the women their man admires when browsing pics or porn

there will always be someone skinnier sexier prettier and sexual

the fact you tell her she is desired is wonderful

once she realises she is sexier to you than all those others put together then hopefully she may feel more comfortable to dress or undress to please you.

theres nothing nicer to make a woman feel sexy.... than a man who only has eyes for her.

just my take on things,

x

Thanks, i am glad i shared my concerns your support has been fantastic.

The first thing she should know is do it for yourselves for her and you only. Give her control of the situation she don't have to start out nude or semi nude, do it fully clothed in something that she likes get a few pics snapped show her how beautiful she is build her confidence up might take few.

That's how I got started and look how slutty I dress now lol ;)

There is eyes out there that just luv all sorts body styles. some like skinny some don't , some like regular body style some don't and some like the heavier bodies some don't... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and beauty you cant weigh its in all of us depending on who wants to find it in us. I wish you the best of luck, stay on it do not give up she will sooner or later realize she will enjoy herself as much as you do.

Thanks once again, you guys are great. I feel a lot more able to discuss this . Will update if i have any progress.