Sharing with spouse?   Reply to topic

Just a curiosity question.

It seems there are a few in the swinger lifestyle, maybe a few more with shared wives, and maybe even some hotwife/cuckold relationships within the people on the site.

But it seems to me the guy never gets to play as much. Maybe I'm wrong in thinking this, so I was wondering if there are any open marriages or relationships where both have physical intimacy with others outside that relationship.

If not, would you want to, and to what extent?



For us, we once agreed on a "hall pass" in advance to take care of needs when hubby was away for an extended period. He seems more than open to me having sex with another guy if I desire, with or without him there. I have allowed him to have sex with another woman with me there, but we were all included and it started as an idea of mine.

Hubby likes the nasty side of me, and hearing about past sexual encounters and such, but he even admits he doesn't know what the appeal would be to letting me have sex with other guys, especially if he didn't watch. I guess it's just one of those things, but it seems quite a few guys enjoy at least the thought.


So check in everyone, and please for others I'm asking out of curiosity only and I hope nobody uses it as an excuse to judge others that might do things they themselves don't.

this is an interesting subject and i wanted to comment and admire u for bringing this up

id be more than happy to share my man with another woman sexually, why? well mainly because most men,, if they are honest and in in love with their wives to the point that they can be totally honest with them,,most would love the chance to experience the feeling of sex with another woman,,
i personally would like to be present though,,
i dont think id be comfortable with the sex taking place without me being present/involved.. ya know?

i mean this..
im a good wife and want what hubby wants,, that includes being open to his fantasys,,
so ofcourse after discussion id love to make him happy
and that in turn would make me happy

dont get me wrong
as much as i loved him. i wouldnt agree to anything that made me saddened or feel inadequate
so..

to sum up
i think personally.. men .my man,, would be centre of attention with any swapping or swinging

but to add..
i wouldnt personally get pleasure from sex with another guy
im a one man women.. sorry,, boring and all that,,,,,,
just is me

my thrill and sexual pleasure would be pleasing my man
with women or all together,,
so he felt loved and wanted and desired

i dont need to have that

i get that already from my spendid hubby

and shelly babe,, this is no reflection on what u have said and do
i admire anyone who is so in love with their partners
that this is no big deal
regardless..........
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

mrs k

I'm with Mrs K, I'm also a one man woman. I do think though that if both in a couple are equally into it, then it's brilliant to find someone that you can share that with.

as trix will prob agree,, nice way of putting that pleasure.

Indeed I do MrsK. Dang Pleasure you gots a way with words. x