just told my wife about fantasy of watching her with someone..the visual thing is huge. I have 8ft of mirror in my bedroom and I love watching her move, her muscles flexing and arching and, oh ya, her answer was swift and I heard it several times that night of how she could never touch another and it would never work for her and ...so on.
So I got squashed like a bug..but on the other hand..had some of wildest sex in a long time that night. only got 2 hrs of sleep and had to go to work...awesome.
so not sure yet
So of course the burning question of why would someone want to share something as personal as your partner.
When I was a kid I had a bike...I was proud of my bike..had it all fixed up and it looked nice...I liked to show off my bike, and I knew that all the other kids wanted to ride my bike. Of course at that time it was new to me and I wasn't ready to share with everyone. But I noticed after I had the bike for a while, I was still proud of it and loved it very much but I was now able to let some of my buddys ride it. So there you have it..lol. ok maybe not quite that simple.
After 25 years on the same bike, some might want to try a different bike. A new bike with all the high tech stuff...very tempting,
What is interesting is the age of all of the people that are ready to share their bikes. Lots that have only been together a few years. It is more in the open and now you see interest in all age groups instead of back in the old days it seems the only ones involved were much older and,,, teeth were optional. lol
Yes and I can imagine all the things that can go wrong with the fantasy and for some it should be left as a fantasy. I really don't know if I would be up for it but as a fantasy..it works quite well for me. That's one of those things that would be hard to only stick your toes in to test the water. You would have to go to the deep end, and from the high dive, you do a cannonball.