On your liist of things you want in a sexual partner...what's the top 5?
for me the person has to be a lot of fun to be with and someone who won't get their ego bruised if I decide to take the initiative which I have been known to do.
honesty
passion
adventurous
genuine
loves me for me...
1. Smarts, wits, intelligence
2. Sexy, in mind and body
3. Picky, not liable to fall for the first fella that comes along
4. Insatiable!
5. Gotta have a nice ass!
This question is way too hard for me. If it's about sexual desire only, and not intimacy/love/romance, etc then the answers would be more simple. But a sexual partner always comes with at least some attachment, even if it's a one night stand or bad decision when drinking or something. LOL
Good point ShellyB...........rephrase...........Top5 for someone you would be intimate with?
This one is still really hard for me, as there are a lot of factors that are hard to rate by number. But here are 5, just maybe not in real order. LOL
1. Someone with a strong mind and wit. I briefly dated a good looking idiot, and it was just not worth it.
2. Someone confident in bed and wanting to please. It doesn't take porn star moves to get a woman where she wants to go, and all men have fingers and tongues as well as cocks. Use them!
3. Someone adventurous and open minded but not to the point of pushing me off the freakiness cliff. A hot outfit, some roleplay, surprises? Sure. Expect me to bang 5 guys because you asked.... uhhhhh.... NO!
4. Someone that fully understands that intimacy is just as much if not more emotional than it is physical. Someone that understands emotional needs is often much more intimate to me than someone who is just good in bed.
5. A person that reads me well. When no means yes, when yes means no, and when I've been bad and need to be punished! LOL
Brilliant answer Shelly, I particularly agree with the good looking idiot thing lol