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Posted On: 10 Jul, 2014 at 07:10 PM injector injector
12 Jul, 2011
Posts: 2

My wife is 51 and smoke'n hot. She has the body of a 20 year old. Here's the problem .. She has no interest in sex. She said so herself. She doesn't like massages or when I try to touch her pussy. She even turns down oral when I try. When we do have sex her main goal is to get me off quick and be done. She seems like she's a million miles away. I'm going crazy trying to figure her out. Any thoughts?

Posted On: 11 Jul, 2014 at 01:09 PM injector injector
12 Jul, 2011
Posts: 2

Thanks for all the replies. I didn't think I'd get any. Well, I know she loves me by the way she treats me and I know she's not cheating because were always together. She has been thru menopause. Could that be it?? We are close and have romantic times together, everything seems great until it comes to sex.
Thanks again

Posted On: 13 Jul, 2014 at 12:03 AM txsweet txsweet
29 Jan, 2010
Posts: 553

Bingo Baby......Menopause.

Give her a couple months to get through it, Then I assure you'll be the one whos says "I got a headache tonight. Your uninterested wife you will so you things that will bow you mind!

Watch....I dont think you'll be back to thank me because you wont have time.

Patience my Dear Fried.

Posted On: 13 Jul, 2014 at 12:53 AM samuelj1 samuelj1
2 Dec, 2010
Posts: 125

Well, I went through all that with my own wife of almost 60 years and we both had our ups and downs regarding our sex life, but at least you still have her. I lost my wife last year so if you just hang on and love each other you will make it through it all. Life is short so enjoy what you have now. Its not all about sex!
Samuel

Posted On: 26 Oct, 2014 at 04:44 PM alan01346 alan01346
4 Aug, 2014
Posts: 106

If all that doesn't help, and it's mainly the professional help I've got in mind, it may be something in her past which she's repressed. By coincidence I've now run into 2 women who were sexually abused as children. My ex had repressed it so much that it took 24 years of therapy and hypnosis to dig it out. I didn't know about it until after we were divorced. It wasn't just forced sex, there was violence too. I know less about the other woman but she spent 2 years in a mental institution afterward as a teenager.

If my damned website weren't down (need to move to a new host) I normally keep a PDF on there of an article the local paper did on her. It's more common than you might think. Until the past few years carefully swept under the carpet.