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My wife wont shave her pussy. Her pubic hair is long and tangled and i have to hold my breath when i lick her clit, when i eventualy find it. She showers twice a day but her beaver stinks like a dead fish. She wont even trim it a bit. She never has it puts me off sex.

Has she had kids? I don't think it's the bush. I dated a woman whose pussy smelled really bad, couldn't go down on her, sometimes standing up from behind it was awful. She had 4 kids. She asked her doctor and got the lame reason that sometimes a woman's body chemistry changes when she has children. There's probably a more technical reason, maybe something that can be done about it. Try searching at nih.gov for vaginal odor or similar. I've never had sex with any woman who didn't have a bush and she's the only one that smelled bad, also the only mother.

Im with dennis I have never had that problem. In fact I prefer a woman to have some hair down there. It could be a chemical imbalance. Over washing or douching too often can cause this. Also the brand or type of soap that she is using could be a contributing factor. Look for natural soaps that do not contain harsh chemicals to wash the body with. Look at all of your hair care products and do the same. I am a mechanic and a painter. I use kirks castile soap in the shower. To clean my hair I do not use shampoo. I use the "no poo" method. This method you use baking soda dissolved in water and wash your hair and scalp with it and rinse it out. for conditioner I use apple cider vinegar diluted in water and put that in my hair and rinse it out. To prevent my hair from damage after the shower I use organic Argon oil. Take a look at your washing soap for your clothes, and fabric softener. You never ever want any soap that comes into contact with your body to leave any kind of film behind. Depending on what kind of underwear she prefers that can cause issues. If I was in your shoes I would gently let her know your feelings. suggest that you help her do some grooming or better yet groom eachother. Well I hope that my input was of some help. Great topic by the way.

P.S. Look into raw organic coconut oil and its benefits for the body internally and externally. Has there been a change of eating habits ? What a person eats and drinks can cause all kinds of things.

This wasn't a fish smell, that I might have expected, this smelled like something rotten.

Maybe other people have better luck with medical professionals but my doctor lets me bend his ear for 15 minutes every 6 months. I spent 2 years waiting for my PAD to get diagnosed and that wouldn't have happened if I hadn't started getting chest pains. It was accepted that I had trouble walking, no one looked into why.

Doctors are so overbooked it doesn't hurt to do your homework first. Don't jump to any conclusions but have a list of possibilities, on paper, and go over them with your doctor. I'd guess it's maybe bacterial so having a culture taken and sent to a lab, a quick swipe with a Q-tip and sending it off sounds good. They'll only do the specific tests requested of them though so that's why it's important to make knowledgeable suggestions.

I try to stay away from .com sites when I'm looking up medical stuff because they want to sell you a quick solution. .org, .gov, .edu are mostly OK. I save PDF files to study later. nih.gov has a lot of PDFs. Reputable sites will be linked to each other, they won't be afraid of somebody stealing their customers.

Start at http://health.nih.gov/ even if you're not in the US.