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Looking for a woman or two to rock my world

As the expression goes, dream on. Especially without a profile picture. This is a community of real people. What's magical about it is that talking about sex is OK. If you like someone's tits (or whatever) they might actually enjoy having you say so. There isn't much that's taboo.

Will you get laid? Maybe, eventually, if you don't make an ass of yourself. It takes time to get to know people, who's dating who, it's more like high school or college than some pick up bar. But everybody here is a real person with real feelings and a real life outside of here. Try doing a contri, follow up on the comments you get.

Thanks for the advice I havent been on here long as a member. I have enjoyed the free aspects of the sight for a number of years however. I dident really expect that to work anyways it was more of a holler in a croud to see who would look

Well frankly nothing's worked for me either but I'm 60 and out in the boonies. Plenty going on in NYC I imagine. Try your luck in the chat too if you haven't. I'm a wallflower, always had better luck with women picking me up except nobody's wanted me in 20 years.

Thats good advice butter cup I dident concider tact for an x rated sight. I read a forum about what the ladys like to see in mens pics and about the earatating things we do in messenger. That you had a hand in explaining as well I like the way you add prospective

You really need to check out chat and get to know people. My experience here is that there are more men & couples looking to hook up then there are single women. But that's not to say that there aren't any. I myself met up with several people when I first joined. We chatted for months before I made the decision to meet them though. But just posting isn't going to get you anywhere. Most people just read the forum, they don't respond to anything. You would have a better shot going into chat and getting to know people there and see who's interested in what.

Thank you Buttercups, you're still on my curiosity list BTW.

I know when I first started here the commentators on new contris set a bad example. Maybe they're just jaded but they all sound like they're describing a piece of meat and I started doing that at first too. It didn't take long to figure out that "Hey babe, nice tits" wasn't going to get me far. I have certain favorites and I keep a directory for each with their about page, photos, videos. I try to pick out bits of information from the backgrounds of pictures about what their hobbies might be, whether there are kids (toys) or pets around, and I usually look over all their pictures and about page again before I comment on something. Maybe it makes me sound like I'm being too familiar but I feel like I know a little about them. For my real favorites like blondehottie I keep all their pictures, never miss a contri, comment on each one. They either get sick of me or I'm becoming more familiar.

And sometimes I get replies to my comments and visits to my profile from the woman who's contri I commented on. It feels like a celebrity has recognized me in a crowd from onstage.

The thing is I'm old (60) and I'm in here looking for a relationship while most people here aren't. Aren't there still swing clubs in NYC like Plato's Retreat? I haven't been to NYC since 1965, have no interest, even though it's only a few hours away.

I seem to have gotten the attention of some commentators judging by my profile visits. I'm not criticizing, I wouldn't want that job. It could be fun for some women for a while. But trying to make original comments when it's your 1000th one? And some women I'd be hard-pressed to say anything good about their appearance, but as a viewer I don't click on them. I've thought about applying, but no thanks.

I have tryed to find companionship on sights like match and tryed to meet someone less wholesome at sights like benoughty. but I never managed to talk with any correspondent from match. And benoughty was more of a every girl was trying to sell another sight or get money wired to them on some off shore account ... the latter got close that girl sent 2 dozen emails chating up her home life and all that, but she never answered a direct question then tryed to get me to wire her money for a plane ticket. Altho she seemed convincing and was all sorts of that girl next door attractive something about the whole thing seemed like a skam. but thats one I will alwas wonder wether I did the right thing there.
I alwas liked this sight sense I first found it probably younger then I should have. I once got in trouble in school cought with a couple penthouse mags on the play ground. The teacher that cought me told me thats those woman were not real. So I started a quest to find the" real thing" that and figuring out im a voyeur ... not so much the hidden camera kind. Brought me here. What I now hope is a happy medium between a hookup sight and a finding the perfect mach sight. Back to the place that found so long ago befor I could get the full experience

Sounds like you were a prodigy, I was half hoping you were going to say you got caught with a teacher. I think every guy does that, my mother found my stash, big deal at the time but it all blew over.

I think they are real women in the mags (the pictures have to be taken somehow) but the story lines are made up. Most of those women have no shortage of men available to them. I don't know what Playboy pays a model for a photo shoot but it's big bucks. They mostly live in ivory towers and don't associate with us common folks.

OTOH sites like Southern Charms and maybe Older Women are closer to reality. There's a woman going by "Vixen Kitten" and I found her on PV too. Married, lives in Texas, does swing with a select few. But she's real.

There are lots of scams. I spent many months and dollars chasing dreams from the little ads in the backs of magazines but never got anywhere other than ripped off.