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Ok, read an article yesterday about a woman who tried masturbating for a week to see how it changed things up for her. She said she did not tell her husband. She said if she found out HE was doing it, it would piss her off.

So question is....would it be a turn on for you or your partner to find out the other was pleasuring themselves OR would you feel like you were inadequate when intimate???

BE HONEST!!!

Just because you're on a porn site looking/chatting, doesn't mean you're into everything you say/read.

I will admit that coming here has changed my outlook on things. It makes me sad to think that outside my pv friends, I might not find someone locally who would be compatible in the bedroom.

The only issue I could see is if your partner were depriving you of sex because of their masturbation.

If not, I think it's a great opportunity to have some fun. And if it leads to some hot sex during or after, then what's not to enjoy about a little hands-on activity?

Hell I've watched my wife masturbate on cam for a "friend". She never told him I was sitting off camera. We were both turned on by it.

as long as i am not the reason, ie not satisfying her. I find it a turn on when my wife says she masterbated when she needed to cum. I often will voyeur her masterbating( she does know or i tell her after). Even though m and f are different in "recovery times" I make sure I do not neglect my partner when I masterbate on cam, i make up for it in many different ways. mmm now I am so horny

I agree with G on this. I personally would like to watch/catch the wife, I would only be put out if I was being replaced when I was just next door. I do find it an interesting thing though, the whole subject of masturbation. Pros and cons and reasoning behind opinions. Biggest is why it is looked down on. From an early age I think we program girls that it isn't the proper thing for a good girl, guys it is like "can't you find someone". I think it is both a biological and emotional function in life. As long as you aren't hurting/depriving someone and it isn't breaking any laws, why not.

And wet, we are thankful for your awakening.

I read where it says that the more you do the better! Its better for health as it releases stress and calms your nerves too.

better than saying ooom

My partner and I have watched each other masturbate ,masturbated together, and masturbate solo. I have a much higher sex drive then her so she has no problem with me masturbating. She masturbates solo very little but I have walked in on her once.Now that's a huge turn on. I do not know why anyone would be pissed off if there partner was masturbating alone...Isn't that better then him or her cheating?

Oh yea agree on the double whammy....I would masterbate and cum on her pussy while resisting the urge to make contact or penetrate. Then a short while later fuck her. The good old days......